
Lighting Their Fires (Rafe Esquith)
Two years ago, I included Esquith's
Teach Like Your Hair's on Fire in my "
Teach, damn it" entry. His other title,
There Are No Shortcuts, which is not at all as compelling as
Hair's on Fire, and the documentary about his class,
The Hobart Shakespeareans, which is much more so, were also mentioned.
If you appreciated those recommendations, you will adore
Lighting Their Fires. (
Added later: As I mentioned in
this entry, I received a review copy of this book.)
Framed by an afterschool trip to Dodger Stadium, Esquith's narrative is -- I'll just say it -- far less self-absorbed and therefore
much more absorbing than his previous books were. Over the course of nine innings, the veteran teacher shares anecdotes, appreciates students, offers advice (not the least of which includes turn off the television, teach them chess, and give them music and art lessons), and models restraint in the presence of Very Bad ballpark behavior.
It's a gem.
For the chapbookp. 53
Parents who want more for their kids have to take matters into their own capable hands. Reading for pleasure helps students excel in many pursuits, from art projects to scientific experiments. Reading for extended periods of time and then discussing the content with peers is a priceless exercise in focus.
(
Note: You know how much I appreciate the synchronicity and serendipity at work in my reading life. Well, as I mentioned in
the 9.21.2009 "On the nightstand" entry, I recently read
The Westing Game with the Girls Rule Book Club. (In fact, I listed
The Westing Game right beneath my note about received a review copy of
Lighting Their Fires.) How neat it was, then, that
The Westing Game was listed as one example of a book parents should read with their elementary school-age children. More, for older students, he recommended that no teen miss
Holden. Wonderful. Just wonderful.)
p. 66
In studying Shakespeare, I have heard several experts define tragedy as not something that is merely bad, but something that is bad that should have been good.
p. 67
The ultimate goal in raising a child is to get him to turn off his own television set. We can take the cigarette or bottle away from the addict, but that is not the cure. And besides, we cannot simply remove the danger of television. It's there and it's a reality. The real challenge is to teach a child the reason why television can rob him of his potential and get him to make his own decision. [...] A child who chooses to limit his time in front of a screen enormously increases his chances of finding an avenue to greatness.
p. 78
Extraordinary young people are not necessarily brighter than their peers; they have merely developed sharper vision and see the picture more clearly.
p. 107
But for special children, excellence is a way of life, not just something to stive for in school....
p. 112
For children to be inspired to work hard and achieve greatness, they need to understand that their own world is a small one. Other kids are doing the same thing and achieving more. This is not meant to discourage a child, but to show him reality. It is rare that anyone has greatness thrust upon him.
p. 145
All of my energy became focused on the kids rather than on what others might think. My discovery that proving oneself to others is a waste of time paid huge dividends in the children's growth.
p.146
After all, the first rule of parenting and teaching is to be the people we want the kids to be.
(
Note: Ayup.)